Spank Me

The M&S grand opening may still be a few weeks away yet, but S&M is already alive and kicking in Shanghai. On Saturday I attended SPANK! which is a new S&M fetish party hosted at Shanghai Studio. The venue is like a secret underground labyrinth with 11 small, darkly lit rooms and 4 bars, all accessible from a very nondescript entrance at the end of a lane just off Huai Hai Road.

WoAi with the SPANK! DJ who was very nice about having her picture taken with me

The place was very busy despite being open only to pre-registered guests, although there were very few people actually in costume other than the staff, which was disappointing, but perhaps everyone was afraid of being the only one in costume and so decided to play it safe. In fact, I was one of the few who actually made an effort. Although not in costume myself, I did have my sex slave for the evening wearing a red studded collar and chain which was attached to my wrist, which did seem to get a lot of approving looks from the other customers.

After the party I headed to a regular bar to meet Swiss James and Dingle and got looks of disbelief from some of the customers as I entered, still dragging my companion by collar and chain. After a few minutes, I decided it was all a bit too much for the prudish crowd (I’m talking of course about James and Dingle) and I reluctantly released my sub from her restraints for the rest of the evening.

The next SPANK! party is on October 11th for anyone who’s interested.

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35 Responses to Spank Me

  1. gswafford says:

    Cute DJ!

  2. she’s hot.

    as for the other two . . . did you a least offer them your sub for a few minutes? maybe they were just waiting for you to offer . . . haha! i can’t even type that with a straight face. who am i kidding?! =)

  3. D says:


    wow! nice one. I remember the oldern days when i was younger, use to go hell fire with a friend or two. best fetish club in sydney!!

    love latex :) but hey it is just WROOOOONGGGG going there in shirt and jeans!!!!!!! spank spank spank

  4. dingle says:

    Woai, we weren’t prudish as such, we were just very surprised, we both thought Shopgirl was back in Swedeland.

  5. Woaizhongguo says:

    GSWafford – Yeah, she was nice!

    Angie – You’re right, I should at least given them the leash to hold on to while I went to the bathroom. I’m sometimes so selfish and forget my manners.

    D – I really have no response. You’re absolutely right, it’s a disgrace going there in shirt and jeans, although I do think I made up for it with what I brought to the party!

    Dingle – Yes she’s not Swedeland, she’s in a large box in my dungeon. Come over and play when you’re free.

  6. Christine says:

    Yes, everyone had fun at that night!
    It’s great.

  7. maxiewawa says:

    Your “companion” wasn’t your cat, was it?

  8. woai: and for forgetting your manners, i’ll have to punish you . . . =P

  9. Woaizhongguo says:

    Maxie – Tommy was busy that night so I had to put the collar and leash on someone else.

    Angie – Yes, I have. I’ve been a VERY BAD boy and need my punishment now!

    Christine – You were there too?

  10. Swiss James says:

    I’ve tried to explain to WoAi the difference between an Ayi and a submissive sex slave several times.

    Unfortunately he thinks that 10RMB an hour entitles him to do whatever the heck he likes with the poor creature.

  11. Woaizhongguo says:

    James – 10 RMB? I’m not made of money. 8 RMB is as high as I’ll go.

  12. D says:

    show us who you leashed along!

  13. Woaizhongguo says:

    D – Hmmm …. I don’t think so!

  14. Swiss James says:

    Can I just apologise to anyone who was sat in Sasha’s at the weekend and saw someone being spanked in the beer garden with the leather paddle WoAi had brought along.


  15. Woaizhongguo says:

    You all mock me but I know deep down most of the people there were wishing it was them.

  16. T. says:

    WoAi – hmm, no, if I was you then I’d be over 40. And wouldn’t have been in Taipei and Hong Kong this week.

  17. b says:

    Denim and calvin klein underwear should never be seen inside a BDSM club. The bouncer should have made everyone wearing them take it off, even if it means walking into the club naked.

    D – Hellfire is a pretty outthere and queer place for a straight and shy girl. It’s still the best fetish club in the city because it’s the only one.

  18. Swiss James says:

    so we’ve heard from “b” and “D”, when are “S” and “M” going to turn up?

  19. Woaizhongguo says:

    T – Hmmm, fair point, except being over 40 isn’t actually that bad, honestly, just a few aching joints after a 15 minute workout at the gym but otherwise it’s a breeze.

    b – Not gonna disagree with you, except that this is communist ruled China so people were naturally a little hesitant to go all out.

    James – I’m “S” so we just need a willing “M”.

  20. D says:

    hey shyness doesnt equal to dull and boring and unadventurous.
    shyness means more observant and less expressive.and cant approach. but i have always been true to myself.and being true to oneself is always good:)

    hellfire was good. been to torture garden once here in london too :p b, r u a sydney boy.

  21. dingle says:

    Woai, if it were a real gym that would be fair point, we’ve all seen you, down at the park, walking backwards and using the leg-stretchers

  22. AM says:

    I was suppose to go…..sob sob….could have seen ya!

  23. b says:

    d – no, but I travel to Sydney sometimes.

    woai – fair enough but one can always change into costume at the venue.

  24. Woaizhongguo says:

    Wow D you’re starting to slowly reveal your interesting side!

    Dingle – Well gym memberships are very overpriced and parks are free.

    AM – Oh no! That would have been both awesome and embarrassing in equal measures. Not sure I would recognise you though. All your photos on your blog are not very revealing, I guess that’s deliberate.

    b – Yes, true enough. I’ll make more of an effort next time.

  25. shanghai ninja says:

    Hot damn! That’s all I can say. Shanghai has really changed since the last time I was there. Gotta get myself a plane ticket asap!

    Woai, you are a lucky lucky man.

  26. wisemanofasia says:

    wot day is the 11th? Woai…any chance I can visit u on that night? Then maybe I can drag u around on the end of my chain mwuahahahah

  27. Woaizhongguo says:

    Angie – Thank you Mistress A.

    Ninja – Would love to have you over for the next SPANK! party.

    Wiseman – I think I’ve made it pretty clear I am an “S” not an “M”!

  28. you’re welcome . . . now come over here and shine my boots!

    (just taking a poll, but do you think i should buy a 2002 ducati monster 595 or stick to my little kawasaki 250?) either way i look HOT . . .

  29. dingle says:

    angie, you’re a girl, just go out and buy yourself some nice shoes!

  30. Woaizhongguo says:

    Angie – Would you like to use my mouth as an ash tray now? Go for the Ducati. I have a pair of Puma Ducati sneakers, we’ll be well matched.

    Dingle – That sounds well sexist to me, although I do agree Angie won’t have time to ride a bike what with all that cooking and cleaning and other womens’ work.

  31. dingle: shoes are of course an additional consideration . . .

    woai: you know i do all of that and then some! (i’ve seen the puma ducati shoes for women . . . great for walking around – not so great for riding.) =(

  32. Woaizhongguo says:

    Angie – Are you saying I like wearing womens shoes?

  33. Woai: only if you want that to be a part of your “punishment”

  34. Woaizhongguo says:

    Angie – Well sure, but being forced to wear womens’ shoes is a bit pointless …. unless I’m also forced to wear womens’ underwear as well :-)

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